6 October 2008, 12:46 pm
I just recently joined this church last month and really like it alot. The problem is that my ex's wife has been a member there. Even though we have no problems with each other and that i apologized to her, my ex is back in town from mississippi b/c of his grandfathers funeral last week. He broke up with me and mislead me by saying that he wanted to marry me and have a future w/ me, and then tells me that he's still married and as a Christian, God don't want us together anymore. He lied to me and said that he wasn't married and I resented him ever since. the biggest problem is that he comes to church Sunday with his wife and I was shocked b/c he told me that he made it back home safely and was still texting me after our break up. Now that he's back, I don't even know if I should continue to go there or not. Also, his wife knows about the text that he's been sending me as well, but she's not mad at me cuz I didn't respond to them. Even though my first lady and pastor has my back, I still feel upset. Should I continue to go to that church to avoid problems or irritation, or just choose another church home?... read more